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Buckets of Sand
I pull into the driveway, with two completely sand- covered kids. It is 9:30 p.m. I have what appears to be the makings of a small beach in my van. Sand, sand and more sand everywhere.
Kenimer sighs and says “well, I fink that that was a really fun beach party”.
My kids have sand caked in every crevice of their bodies. The bath episode was more like rinsing collard greens… you know how you have to rinse them 6 times to get all the sand off?
Our Church, Saint Simons Community Church, hosted it’s first family beach night. Hundreds of families set up camp around 5 p.m. There were more blankets, quilts, beach chairs, strollers, and buckets of Kentucky fried chicken than I had ever seen in one place.
There were also lots of dogs, puppies, sand toys, and water guns. Yes, the kids were in heaven. At about 9:15 we were packing up. Tucker grabs the towel and points to the sand-buried quilt and says “I wanna lay wite der and doe night-night" Did I mention how very tired they were?
So now I am in the middle of getting rid of the small beach that came home with us. A trip to the vacuum will soon ensue - brooms and dustpans wielded like weapons. However, my heart is warmed by how much fellowship and good ole' socializin' was had last night. We made beach camp with three other couples. We set up “the spread” on a lounge chair, using it as a table. You should have seen two families and a kids- less couple sitting Indian-style around a lounge. Laughter and good food - even if the lounge chair almost toppled every time the kids reached across.
A small grill produced hot dogs and brauts, the three ladies combined edamame, cucumbers, apples, chips, cookies, and other snacks to make a great meal.
My favorite part about this event was actually getting to mingle and talk with church family. Our church is quite large and it’s hard to socialize on Sunday morning when the fear of losing your kids to the enticing stair wells, elevators, water fountains or lake outside are always looming. Shannon and I both met several people we previously did not know.

One boy wrangling a dog while the other yells at cameraman to stop taking pictures!

We made new friends, enjoyed old ones, filled our bellies and embraced the gift of the BEACH. Even if we came home with our own small beach! Growing Things...
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I love to grow things.
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I used to grow kindergartners.
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Marriage and home ownership ensued and I grew lots of flowers.
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I abandoned the flowers to grow the babies.
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Then the babies evolved into toddlers who mysteriously managed to mutilate the blooms. I developed an appreciation for green plants - the kinds that multiply, mound or cover ground and require little tending. You know, the plants that are less attractive to the toddlers. Some favorites include asiago jasmine, variegated jasmine, ferns, cast iron, juniper, lantana, asparagus fern and ivys. I have succcessfully developed a low -maintenace landscape design that stays the same yearly. My handy husband installed an irrigation system which only leaves me the porch plants to water!
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But.. this week I got the itch. The itch to grow something.
After dinner, bath and bedtime I scooted out to Lowes. I was like a kid in a candy shop, I tell ya, browsing the isles of green goodness, flowers of all colors. I almost wanted to apoplogize to all the greenery, I wanted to say…
"I'm sorry, I have been so busy these last two years I have barely stopped to
notice the simple beauty of all of you…" - then my thoughts turned to thankfulness.
What a wonderful maker we have, to think he created all of these variations
of plants. I slowly picked up hundreds of plants one-by-one - reading the names and care instructions, smelling and touching. I made my selections: tomatoes (small and large) and basil (lots of it). My practical side won out and I decided my purchases should benefit me in the kitchen. Sidenote: I put basil in and on EVERYTHING.
The following afternoon, happiness ensued: I was companioned by my four yr. old, warmed by the sun, and our hands were covered in cool earth.


Similarities between gardening and tending to my heart began to surface. Then it hit me: I have been busy, busy, cultivating, shooing away the pesty lies, embracing the truth and continuing to thrive - even when the drought threatens death. I will store up hope in my soil and dig my roots deep.
I AM GROWING HOPE!
 
Riding 8's on the banana & my acrobat!The statement “Kids say the darndest things” rings true daily at our dwelling.
Uh huh. Having a two yr old and a four yr old around makes for ridiculous, crazy- funny dialogue.
This summer we have summer waves season passes. In fact, we are in our 4th summer of holding summer waves season passes. Our 2nd time at the park this season hubby missed the turn and had to turn around… Tucker had a fit, he was saying all kinds of stuff and all we could really make out were the words banana and ride. The fit went out the window when we turned into Summer waves and was replaced with screams of joy!
SO once in the park Tucker kept pointing over in the direction of a certain slide. He was dead locked on his plea. I kept hearing banana, ride and eight. What??? I walked over to the slide where you can ride with 2 yr olds in a double tube. He pointed to the top of the slide which has a banana colored topper on it and said “wanna ride banana”, Ok - so he is referring to the slide as a banana - I get it! But then he said “I wanna ride eight on the banana”. I said “Tucker, what is eight?" He promptly took me to the double innertubes, standing upright by the slide. By golly I do declare: they are in the shape of the number eight. Mystery solved. I then looked at Tucker and said “Oh, you wanna ride the eight on the banana”?, and he lept with joy. We grabbed an eight and proceeded to go down the banana. It was really fun, he giggled and laughed all the way down. Actually, The whole family rode the eight on the banana multiple times

While Im telling funny stories about my kiddos… let’s talk about my acrobat.
In between services Sunday there was graduation for rising 6th graders in the clubhouse, Shannon put together a small band and did a song during the commission. I went in there to watch with Kenimer. I was shedding a tear, looking at my friends children who are growing up. I turned around to catch MY monkey climbing on the jeep (the jeep that is a prop!) My nostalgia turned to laughter as I snapped a pic of the little monkey!

Play by play!

Ok - so my plays are a little out of order! You get it - right?

Blood, sweat and a lot of tears! What a weekend!
Whew! A big weekend is behind us. Our C.D. Release did indeed happen this past Friday night. We were very pleased with all aspects of the evening. I love Jon Blankenship’s statement while introducing us. He said “a lot of blood, sweat and tears has gone into this first Hope Farm project. There are no truer words. The devil did all he could to distract us, confuse us and thwart our efforts. Even in the last few weeks, faith-testing circumstances made following through with this project a challenge at times. We have learned a lot about spiritual warfare, the use of spiritual tools, hope and truth.

Thanks Chris at Chrismoncusphoto.com. I really needed a new avatar.
My creative juices got to rolling Friday afternoon. I piled my car full with all kinds of possible props. Some friends came early to help me set up….
This was the final set up. I thought it evolved into a unique sales and information table. My favorite part is the old Milk crates that I used binder clips to display the discs. On one end are the Hope Farm idscs and the other end are Mckendrees dicss.
 
Saint Lewis was scheduled to lead worship Sunday as well. This was really neat because we used almost the same line up. Friday night we had intertwined popular worship songs with our originals to make a well- rounded worship concert. So,with the exception of two added songs, our Sunday setlist had been delivered Friday night!
The setlist went like this
Wandering Heart- walk in music, Saint Lewis original
Your Grace is Enough-Matt Maher
Glory to God Forever-Vicky Beeching and Steve Fee
Glorious One-Steve Fee
Never Cease to Sing- Saint Lewis original
Take my life- Chris Tomlin and Louie Giglio
The last song was my favorite part of both services, Our church is in a series called “ What are you fighting for”, focusing on the family. At the close of the service all marriage mentors lined up in front and there was a quiet reflective time. Shannon and I did this song with just us and his guitar. I LOVE Hymn harmonies, the rise and fall is so beautiful. I enjoyed working out the tightness of this harmony with my hubby. It was special to sing that with him in a quiet reverent manner in reflection of the sacredness of marriage.
Front cover pics by SarahDeshaw.com Family photo by Chrismoncusphoto.com

So my heart is full with thanks to Jesus for allowing us successfully finish a project that we thought would never see the light of day…. Songs from the Hope Farm. They are here!
Today is the day. The official C.D. release of “Songs from the Hope Farm”!
After several delays with Discmakers we were not sure we were gonna get the C.D.’s in time today. Whew! The box came today.
Nothing like a good 'ole nail biting to keep you rolling! We had a super fun rehearsal last night. One of my favorites…. no problems, just pure fun rehearsal. It was one of those practices that evokes excitement instead of dread.
My Brother, McKendree Augustas is going to open for us. I’m thrilled that he was able to come! Rumor has it that a few of our out-of-town friends are coming tonight…. Can’t wait to be surprised! It feels so good to have a long-awaited project done.
There was a nice article in the Brunswick news this a.m. No mis-representaton, accurate verbage - we were pleased. TheWorshipCommunity.com posted a review by a panel of worship leaders. You can hop over there to read it. I just have to state my favorite quote:
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My first listen through the Songs For The Hope Farm worship album was a little like my first experience with Fondu. First I thought it was a little weird, then I started to love it, then I loved it so much I wanted to figure out how to do it at home."
(Sammuel Sutter)Check out the poster below. It was done by SarahDeshaw.com She is an amazing photographer. Check her out for wedding photography and anything and everything in between.

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Dearest Hubbylove,
Dearest Hubbylove,
Happy Birthday Week to you.
I love that all you wanted for your birthday was two new books.
I love that you wanted to play at Summerwaves on your day.
I love it when you praise me profusely for every good meal I make.
I love watching you as you amazingly father our two boys.
I love it that we are a team.
I love making music with you.
I did not plan every minute detail of this day as I normally do.
The day simply unfolded into beauty and simplicity.
Surprise #1
Shannon went to lunch after church with some out of town friends that were in-town
Surprise #2
He had asked if we could use our season passes and go to summer waves.
Unbeknownst to him, I invited another family.
I forgot to tell him until they texted to meet up. (He was thrilled that I invited friends! Points for me!)
Surprise #3
We ended going out to dinner with friends in bathing suits and all!
No plans needed. Perfection. Complete with a fudge brownie and singing.

Next night I made cupcakes with cream cheese frosting. I let everyone take the spatula and put their own icing on the cupcake. That was a big deal for the little fellas. Did I mention, this was a Kitchen aid affair? One of the four times a year I get on a chair and pull that heavy thing down from the top cabinet?
Last surprise worth mentioning- wii resort.- need I say more?
Uberzoot Salon
Uberzoot salon

Have you heard of Uberzoot Salon?
If not your hair needs to know about it. Not only is Uberzoot a unique high quality salon but Uberzoot is also a line of hair care products developed by Uberzoot Salon owner, Jimmy Vanboxel. It is located in the Shops of Demere, above locos.
My husband has had two Uberzoot hair cuts/color. Both expreinces have been fabulous. His color/highlights have lasted longer than other color treatments.
Following Shannon’s Uberzoot appointment last week, He called me to say that Jimmy had shaped his long hair into a "metrosexual bob". Let’s just say I was more than a little worried. The worry all faded away when I saw his hair. Here is a pic of Shannon and I with our crazy manes of hair... we both have a lot of it!

Shannon's bob ( ha!) I love the colors!

Me with the summer "do"!

Other cool things: Jimmy has competed nationally and internationally including the Olympic Hair styling team, winning several national and international awards, They are currently distributed in salons from Chicago to Palm Beach.
You can read an article about him here
Jimmy is definitely passionate about creating workable hairstyles and effectively delivering. After five minutes of discussing hair with him, you know he has a wealth of experiences and knowledge regarding haircuts. I was really impressed with the verbage he uses while discussing my hairstyle.
For me, I have gotten a little hot-iron happy the last few months... I needed to get rid of some heat damaged front layers. Jimmy create a layered, tousled, finger-run through kind of summer "do" - as he called it - that would work without the hot-iron. He took the time to show me exatly what he was doing while styling my hair.
Chris Moncus of ChrisMoncusPhotography.com said it best "Uberzoot is seriously the premier salon in the area." I wholeheartedly agree. The attention and service is superb.
Sidenote: The best thing about Jimmy Vanboxel is his sweet, fun wife and their three super fun kiddos. (ok, he's cool too!)
Treat yourself to an unberzoot haircut today! Anyone out there wanna hire me to promote you. It comes naturally I tell ya! We've turned a corner...
We’ve turned a corner. Yes siree, a major corner.
I (mom to two boys, age 2 and 4, and a health-conscious eater, myself) am constantly trying to instill healthy eating habits for my boys. Yeah - we sometimes eat fries and burgers: we eat the worst during busy times.
My standards are improving weekly and I strive to follow a healthy diet.
With that being said, I make salads for Shannon and I with dinner. The boys? They get what I call creative salads. The process of swallowing lettuce and spinach has historically been a challenge. Maybe it's kinda stringy for a 2 and 4 year old pallete?
Their salads take on the form of one of the following:
Cucumber slices with lemon pepper, carrots, bell peppers, celery or tomatoes with ranch or some other dip.
But.... last.... Sunday... A Most Unbelievable Happening ... well... HAPPENED!.
This particular Sunday, Kenimer (the oldest) rode the staff bus home with Daddy and I brought the two year old home. The youngest had already eaten and was napping. I made myself an amazing spinach salad with some carrots and cucumbers then I bathed it with Hidden Valley Hickory Bacon (a new type) dressing!
Kenimer walks in with Daddy, comes to the table, and says “mommy I want a salad just like you”. "You're kidding" – My thoughts are – "you spit out lettuce every time I try to coerce you into eating it." I attempted to explain to him that he didn't like spinach. He said, "no mama, I want a salad just like you." My Kenimer is a four year old that knows what he wants.
So I made him a salad just like mine. I even put it in a glass bowl - like mine. I sat down beside him and to my surprise he ate every single bit. He even "mmm’ed" and talked about how yummy it was. He said things like "I'm eating a salad like mommy",& "I like salads like mommy." I couldn't decide if he really liked the spinach salad or if he just wanted to do what I was doing.
Nonetheless - HE ATE A SPINACH SALAD – every last bite.

Mommy Mission accomplished - for that day anyway Surprises
I parked the car and got out my beachchair. One single beachchair, one water bottle and one book - that’s all.
Wow… I was overcome with giddiness.
I was not at a public beach site complete with bath house, hoses and trash can. I was at one of my favorite beach spots. My 'before kids' spot. I walked through the forest and vineyard-like pathway that was dark and opened up to the magnificent sand dunes. I lay down to read and just felt incredibly happy. I texted my husband three times to tell him how I was enjoying this gift of visiting the beach alone. After all, it was mother’s day.
Some time was spent reading and then a dear friend joined me. We lay on the beach talking and relaxing. It was truly heavenly.
Tucker and I had been sick with this sinus/pollen stuff so we had not attended church. When hubbie returned I napped and then found the boys doing “secret projects” in the backyard. I was told to stay away…. I commented that it was a beautiful beach day when my husband says… “why don’t you go to the beach. It will probably help you feel better”. No persuasion needed. I was gone in a flash.
I returned from the beach to find this surprise. My husband knows that ANYTHING with hand-prints melts my heart. There was also another surprise that further turned me to mush! ( click the sound cloud above to hear pure cuteness!)

Except the background, this is all hand prints and finger prints
Kenimer’s school hosted a Mother’s day program. Where these portraits were hanging up. I had to guess which one was me. I have lop-sided eyes but I love the earrings and necklace! Check out my adorable bumble bee!
To top off a perfect day- we had a lovely dinner of grilled tuna, sautéed spinach, and corn. Shannon also went out and got me a hot fudge Sunday indulgence right before bed! Healthy… right? It was glorious.
Pictured below are the priceless gifts that entitle me to be called a MOTHER!

Fun FridayToday is Friday and it’s going to be a good day.
Yesterday was Thursday – it was not a good day.
Yesterday does down in history as 1 of the top 5 most discouraging days in the last 6 years.
So, it’s a good thing that I started reading Strengthen yourself in the Lord by Bill Johnson to my husband last week.
It’s a good thing that I wrote a blog on Wednesday about HOPE.
It’s a good thing I read a devotional Wednesday night about trust and provision.
It'a s a good thing I woke up this morning with the start of a new song.
It’s a good thing that He said if we wait upon Him, He will renew our strength. He also said we will mount up with wings like eagles.
It’s a good day.
Saint Lewis (yep, that’s us) is opening for the Matthew West concert tonight. I'm excited and honored to be able to share three original songs with the crowd.

Here is another good Friday! May 21 … Check it out...

Wellness Wednesday: I saw HOPE today
"But Now, Lord, What do I look for, My Hope is in you." - Psalm 39:7
Today I saw Hope...

...when my two year old was putting flowers in my face saying "It smells dood mama". I was busy pulling groceries out of the car. I hadn't even noticed the Jasmine was in full bloom.

I saw it here remembering that these ferns were a lone 8 bunches two years ago. I almost pulled the suckers up and trashed 'em…. They were brown and crisp. Mom told me to give them some more time. Wow… I had to thin them out this spring.

I saw Hope…..in the bottle brush tree that was nothing short of a dead back in February. It has bloomed every year but this winter I thought “are you really gonna be beautiful in a few months?”. You look so hopeless.

I saw Hope remembering the 5 jasmine plants I planted two springs ago. I longed to see it full and thick. I was told the variegated kind didn't mound as well. WRONG. I had to thin it back this year.

I saw Hope when I looked at Kenimer’s vegetable garden today and saw these plants. They were started with seeds a few weeks ago. He can’t wait to get the carrots.
For some silly reason this made my heart sing every time I walked past. Yes, it is a bowl of fruit sitting under the chalkboard announcing it was Mexican night. I didn't even realize it was Cinco De Mayo!
Hope is... this bay window. The boys were gazing at the rain. It had been raining really hard but at this point it was letting up a bit. This window frames a beautiful tree, ivy garden and lots of other greenery.

Just think – this window was sitting in a trash pile five year ago. It was removed from a house during a remodel. I had hope for what their trash could be!
Hope is something you sometimes have to look for…
"We wait in hope for the Lord, He is our help and our shield." - Psalm 33:20
"Be strong and take heart all you who hope in the Lord." Psalms 31:24
Where do you see hope today? What are you hoping for? Our Home is like a Little Church
My husband has quite a way with words. He has a long history of writing reviews for anything and everything (It goes way back to college while working for, and co-founding his own, magazines). He continues to write reviews for many bands, authors etc. Mail is always fun when we get a brown envelope with a new C.D. or book.

So the other day, we received something we had never reviewed before! A children’s book titled Our Home is like a Little Church. More fun was sure to ensue when hubbie announced he was going to let the kids help review it!
This book is a phenomenal way of showing parents how they can be primary spiritual leaders in their children's lives. However, I do have one concern: the book definitely emphasizes the Father as the spiritual leader of the home. I strongly agree with this position, however what about children raised in single-parent homes, or homes where the father is not a believer?
Otherwise, the book is a beautiful illustration of teaching your children the ways of the Lord- and while I could try to recap - it’s best told in his words. You can read Shannon’s review here.
Consider buying the book for under 5 bucks!
He knew what he needed...
I was slowly coming to consciousness and fighting, fighting, as these thoughts are racing through my head –
“Is that the 2 yr. old I hear screaming?”
“No I think it’s the sound machine” “oh wait I did’nt even turn it on last night”
“It might be the next door dogs”
I am rolling into awakeness with every cry… ”Oh no , I think it is Tucker”
I roll over and gaze at my sleeping husband. I then remember He got up with our four year old last night during a nightmare episode. Its my turn.
Put one foot in front of the other, come on mama, get up and check on your child.. I scream at myself in an unspoken half asleep state. I get up and walk to his room. I pick him up and at this point I am fully awake and happy to redeem the “gift” of nighttime awakenings ….. Snuggle time! I pick him up and ask him what he wants or needs.
He is saying “I wan Wata”… I know I must be hearing things.
For those of you who know my two year old you know that I am in a constant battle to get him to drink water. He gets so mad when I give him water, and he doesn't get over it quickly. Surely he is not asking for water. I get him what he requests… As I walk back to his room with water cup in hand, I chuckle as I predict the next occurance: he will scream and yell and say he wants juice or milk.
To my surprise, he grabs the water, says "Tank oo Mama" and sucks down every last drop as if it is the last bit of water left on earth.
I laughed as I climbed into bed at 2:53 AM and process what had just happened. I realized that though Tucker didn't like water he knew when middle-of-the-night thirstiness hit, only water would quench his thirst.. in his two year old mind he knew what he needed.
How many times have I been dealing with discouraging thoughts, despair and anxiety and I knew what I needed? I have known that I needed to renew my mind and meditate on truth. Instead I dwell on the negative because it is easier.
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I am stuck nursing hurts or unmet expectations and what I need to do is let go but instead I hang on and entertain revenge because it is easier.
I learned a lesson from my two year old, what I need may not be what I like, want or what tastes or feels better going down……
So on Monday morning I am muddling through the week via calendar, ordering priorities and trying to not ignore those things I need most...i.e. quiet time, alone time, creative time, some time with hubbie, quality time with kiddos, and most importantly ..water!
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Thoughts on family life, and 'life as worship' from a 30-something Wife, Mother, Worshiper, Worship Leader, Songwriter, and Musician.
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